The standards for people are different all around the world, across different time periods and countries. The different religions also have varying norms when it comes to romance. One of the biggest differences has to do with self-selected marriages and arranged marriages when it comes to standards. But that is when we have to remember that love is a universal emotion, and it transcends boundaries in diverse ways across the globe.

Here in America the dating culture is very casual especially compared to Northern Europe, where I come from. Americans talk for a short period of time and hang out, then they date. From my perspective, they don’t even like each other, or they barely know each other when they start dating. It usually lasts two months, and then they break up. This casual dating culture is beneficial because it means getting to meet more people and to know what you want when you’re looking for a life partner. This is helpful and overall smart.

In India, love is deeply rooted in tradition and spirituality. Arranged marriages are common, where families play an important role in bringing couples together. On the other hand, the ancient concept of “Swayamvar” allowed women to choose their own partners from a selected group of men. 

France, often known as the perfect example of romance, has a culture steeped in passionate love. The French are known for their romantic expressions, gourmet dinners, and the art of seduction. Paris, the City of Love, has become synonymous with romance, with the iconic Eiffel Tower as a backdrop to countless love stories.

Scandinavian culture places a high value on personal space and independence, even in romantic relationships. The talking stage is also longer and you really get to know the person before you start dating. Equality is essential, and couples often share responsibilities equally. In Scandinavian countries it’s not as much about dating, but more about talking and meeting random people outdoors.

Love is a universal language but its expression varies richly across cultures and countries. From the intricate rituals of India to the passionate romance of France, each culture contributes a unique chapter to the global narrative of love. As we explore these diverse manifestations of love, we come to appreciate the beauty of human connection in its many forms.