Valentine’s is here and a lot of people are entering the talking stage. This is a guide, mostly for the guys, about the first date. I’m going to talk about where you should go and what you should do. 

Don’t go to the movies: This is one of the worst ideas because you don’t talk or get to know each other. Maybe end the date with a movie and start it with doing something beforehand. Try to feel out the situation for how long it should be. 

Eating out: you’re not together yet, and you’re getting involved in some messy food. That is not the first impression your future girlfriend or boyfriend wants to get from you. But if you both love food, it could be fun.

Home: Do something fun, and don’t just sit around and be on your phones. Most people in Boise also have a car so you can go places and do activities.

Bowling: Everyone has experienced the awkward walk back from your throw every single time. You get to talk though, so it can be good. This is acceptable.

Invite your friends: Bro, just no. This is a day for you two to get to know each other. Don’t include your friends in this special moment.

Now, we’re heading over to some good first dates. Have a plan for what you should do. That’s when they know you are a keeper. After you have made the plan, pick them up, and follow the plan. A good first date is first of all an activity. 

A fair or arcade: This is always a keeper because you got stuff to do, you can win prizes, and go on roller coasters. 

Mini golf: Some people may say that it’s a bad first date, but I think it’s good. You can teach the other person how to golf. It’s fun. 

Picnic or stargazing: This is nice and cozy. If it’s not the right person it could get a little bit awkward and you could run out of things to talk about, but you will know if it’s the right person. If both of you like nature, this is for you.

Skiing or Snowboarding: Here in Boise you can go skiing or snowboarding if you both like that. You talk in the lift, and if you get lost in the woods it’s even better. 

First dates are all about getting to know each other, and the best thing is to do something fun. Choose something out of the ordinary and go on an adventure that resonates with both of you. But do something you both will remember in the future that is a good memory.